Claim your BEAUTY. And say goodbye to your inner ugly. I’m sorry that it has taken so long for part two in this series I started way back HERE. Now that my Mom no longer needs me, I am excited to explore with you how we bad-mouth ourselves, how we can stop that, and how we can love ourselves, and live the way we were always meant to!
beautiful [byoo-te-fel] {adjective} 1. having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear or think about; delighting the senses or mind.
2. wonderful; very pleasing or satisfying 3. excellent of its kind.
Let’s be honest, we all look in the mirror and ask the same question that the queen in Snow White asked “mirror, mirror, who’s the fairest one of all?” The answer the mirror gave her was the start of ugly behavior, family separation, and a host of unpleasant things. Imagine if the mirror would have answered the queen with ” YOU….you are an amazing woman with fantastic talents. Don’t worry about anyone else. You are perfect!”

Our culture is such a visual culture, everywhere we look are (airbrushed) images of beautiful young, skinny people. Is it any wonder that when you look into the mirror, you see something, well, maybe not quite perfect enough? But as you can see above, the definition of “beautiful” doesn’t even mention young, skinny or perfect.
It is: having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear or think about. Wonderful, very pleasing or satisfying. Excellent of its kind. YOU!
Your beauty comes from the inside, everything about you tells the story of your life ~ you. Your face is painted with the laughter, courage, determination and struggles of your life. It’s what makes you unique. Your smile and your eyes portray who you really are, and what you think of yourself.
I lost quite a lot of weight starting two years ago. Right about that time my Mom got Alzheimers. While everyone else started commenting about how great I looked, Mom never did. At first, this bothered me, but I came to understand that she never even noticed I had become quite heavy, or lost weight again. As my Mom, she thought I was beautiful, always had been, and still was. She saw no difference because to her, it just didn’t matter. {that’s a picture of the two of us together long ago}
Each one of us is an original, created by God, painted on by our life’s experiences, to produce a one of a kind masterpiece. Let’s break the habit of telling ourselves we are not beautiful. When you look into the mirror first thing each glorious day, tell yourself “you are beautiful!” It may be a little weird at first, but honest, replacing what you say to yourself will make a huge difference in your life. Repeat the affirmation, the more you do, the more you will believe it. Soon you will truly “act as if” you believe you are beautiful, gain confidence, and literally glow.
Once you make the decision to be beautiful, and to feel good about yourself, you will be so surprised! You are beautiful and perfect just the way your are. Treat yourself well, and the rest of the world will, too. A huge side benefit is that you will see the world through new eyes, you will see beauty and loveliness everywhere, and your creative juices will flow like never before!
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