July 28, 2021 5 min read 35 Comments
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August 11, 2021
My dad used handkerchiefs everyday of his life but not until his memorial service did I realize it wasn’t gross. ;) And at his service a long time family friend gave me his (obviously to help with tears) and I have cherished it ever since. After this charming post I plan to carry it with me. Thank you for brining up sweet memories.
July 29, 2021
Darlene, such a great idea to send hankies in cards! I still send cards, do you? A text on my birthday just does not do it for me. Such wonderful memories you have, I am sure many of us share them.
July 29, 2021
Received many (and I do mean many) of Nanny’s hankies after she passed. My sisters were not interested and only took a few.
I now have 3 zip lock bags in (Nanny’s ) cedar chest full of her charming handkerchief’s for my girls when I’m gone.
Sent a new one in cards; Birthday, thank you, sympathy and
In notes to out of state friends, as young bride and
Before computers!
Loved them as a child and still reminisce going to the “Five and Dime store” with my mom, she let me browse the counter filled with… oh, so many beautiful hankies.
July 28, 2021
How fortunate you are to have them! I agree, they are a little bit of elegance in one’s purse!
July 28, 2021
What a special collection, Darlene. I know you cherish them!
July 28, 2021
How special your collection is! And I agree, it IS a bit of elegance to have in one’s purse. love it.
July 28, 2021
I have a collection of hankies which I have framed. They are so lovely. I was fortunate enough to have a friend gift them to me after her mother-in- law passed. I had been good friends with her when I was just starting a family. So they are special to me.
July 28, 2021
I love every one of my many handkerchiefs! Some are from my childhood, some have crocheted edges made by both grandmothers, some from my mother and others I’ve purchased overseas or were gifts. They are such a little bit of elegance to have in one’s purse!
July 28, 2021
Rita, what a sweet thoughtful idea! Your brother-in-law wins the best BIL prize! That is such a great idea, thank you so much for sharing that. I love children’s handkerchiefs, they are super rare to find, I agree! Mostly because….well, children. I found a box of antique silk child size hankies a few years ago, and sold all but one. Obviously not for real use, nanny probably just used her own larger ones!
July 28, 2021
:) I love your story. I’ll admit, I don’t iron my every day handkerchiefs. My husband’s Dutch mother always always always ironed everything {she ironed my underwear when I first visited her as a young bride!!} but I just fold them right out of the dryer. The special ones, though, those I iron. Thank you for sharing. xo
July 28, 2021
Hello Barbara, thank you so very much, that is so sweet of you to say. I’m so happy that you are inspired to carry a handkerchief, they are so handy!
July 28, 2021
So sweet. Finding children’s vintage hankies is an especially sweet treasure, so hard to find. I have a brother-in-law who, very thoughtfully, gave each of my six sisters and me a purple (my mother’s favorite color) hankie at my mother’s funeral, and a couple weeks ago at [another of] my brother-in-law’s funeral, he gave one to each of my sister, her daughters, granddaughters and dil. It was such a thoughtful gesture.
July 28, 2021
I love hearing that, Theresa! They are special, aren’t they, especially since handkerchiefs are so personal, often with the owner’s initial, or with colors or flowers she loved.
July 28, 2021
Rhea, what a wonderful idea. An idea that anyone can adopt, and one I’m certainly going to. It’s such an unexpected surprise, isn’t it, to find a special handkerchief in a sweet card. Brilliant!
July 28, 2021
Jeanie, I hope you get out your pretty inherited hankies and use them! They will bring you such joy, because you will be thinking of the women you love.
July 28, 2021
Denise, another brilliant idea for displaying hankies! What a smart idea, plus it shows each one off for a while, and you can rotate the display.
July 28, 2021
Mine was too! My grandmother and mom probably would die to know that I only iron the special ones now, not the “everyday” hankies. I love that you inherited your husband’s Aunt Isabelle’s hankies!
July 28, 2021
Mary Anna, you love all the things used for gracious living! Antique guest towels are so charming, aren’t they? Just like handkerchiefs, they carry so many memories of the past.
July 28, 2021
Sherry, I love that movie too, for many reasons! Hankies are a little square of magic, as far as I’m concerned.
July 28, 2021
Sarah, what a great idea to use pretty small ones as cocktail napkins, that is really thinking outside the box, just what I adore!!
July 28, 2021
Sharon, I love that a little post about handkerchiefs or an actual handkerchief can bring back joy to our hearts and memories, don’t you?
July 28, 2021
Edie Marie, oh, how I love this!! And especially since you are planning to make a quilt for your granddaughters with them, that is such a brilliant idea!
July 28, 2021
YES! I’ve inherited the handkerchiefs of my Grandma Meme, my Grandpa Henry, my darling daddy, my mother and aunts. I treasure them. The one of my grandpa’s is still in it’s box with his initials on it. My Meme purchased it as a gift to him for their wedding. It was made in Ireland. I never got to meet this wonderful man so I treasure it and look at it as he would have, admiring it and smiling. I plan to use several of my collection to make small quilted throws for my 2 granddaughters with the names of the women they belonged to embroidered on the edges. They’re at the top of my “project list”. Along with 3 other quilts I have to do! Yikes! Thanks for the wonderful post Lidy!
Blessings always, Edie Marie
July 28, 2021
A lovely post that brought back many wonderful memories of my grandmother, mom, and aunts who carried lovely handkerchiefs. Thanks you, Lidy!
July 28, 2021
Lidy, I loved reading this post! I carry a hanky and so does my husband. I’ll add another reason to your list. Since COVID arrived, I have reached for my hanky whenI didn’t want to touch a door or such with my hands. Then, of course, it goes into a little ziplock to be laundered. ?
Oh, and I have many vintage hankies from my mom and grandmother. I like to use the pretty embroidered ones as cocktail and luncheon napkins. They are also perfect for a bread basket liner.
July 28, 2021
This is a wonderful post. I grew up carrying hankies. One of my favorite movies, modern day classic, is You’ve Got Mail with Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan. I love the scene where Kathleen Kelly offers little Annabelle a hankie when she hears her sneeze. Annabelle has no idea what it is, so Kathleen explains its use and the sentimental value of the embroidered daisy. Kathleen is quite perplexed that kids don’t know what a handkerchief is any more!
Your post is lovely and educational for an inquiring mind. Thank you!
July 28, 2021
I am a fan of dresser scarves and doilies. Have so many and, also, lovely guest towels. Really add a bit of charm.
I use, for my everyday silverware, a silver plate pattern by Oneida, “Grosvenor”. Silver plate today is not very expensive and collecting all the various serving pieces can be fun. Of course, it needs to be polished, but that can be fun, too. Looks so beautiful when freshly polished!
Oh …. I have many sweet hankies, too.
July 28, 2021
My first ironing chore was to iron my fathers hankies. To this very day I iron my husbands hankies so that when he pulls one out of his pickets they are sparkling clean and well pressed. Many times he has come to my rescue with that hankie that I washed and ironed. My mother always had a pretty handkerchief in her purse with a dab of perfume on it. After she passed we found the last one she used in her purse smelling like her Youth Dew perfume. My husbands Aunt Isabelle who lived to be 98 had many hankies that I inherited. So dainty and with the effort to wash and iron.
July 28, 2021
Love hankies, I have a small collection. To display them I purchased a handmade spoon rack with a sweet little drawer to house the extras, I gently display 1 hankie in each spoon slot to show off their beauty, so feminine and beautiful to look at. Fun post to learn a little history on hankies!
July 28, 2021
I love this post, Lidy! I confess, I’m by and large a Kleenex kind of girl (simply because with some of the issues I have, a hankie wouldn’t suffice! But you are making me rethink NOT having one handy, especially for little spills (ever try dabbing a teeny spill with a kleenex or paper napkin? It doesn’t work!) and you make a great point about the glasses. Yours are so pretty. I have some lovely ones from my mom, grandma and aunt and they deserve to have better use than in my “special” box! (By the way, a naturalist friend once told me that spit works more effectively than many other options in cleaning up a potential stain — I tried it when my tinted chapstick melted and fell onto a yellow blouse leaving a pinkish stain. He was right!)
July 28, 2021
My Mother and grandmothers also used handkerchiefs. They always had one in their purse or pocket. I did too for many years.
My husband depends on his. He has a lot of allergies. I dutifully ironed them for many years. One year his work sent him to work across country for 6 months. I did not go with him but visited him a few times. One day I asked where his iron and ironing board were so I could iron his handkerchiefs. He said “oh I’ve just been folding them right out of the dryer.” I haven’t ironed a handkerchief since.?
July 28, 2021
Hello Lidy,I love reading your posts and look forward to each one!
My dear aunt always carried a handkerchief and had the most beautiful collection which I inherited. I also have a few that she gifted me when I was growing up. I wholeheartedly agree that it is such an elegant practice and exceedingly practical. Sometimes when I am nostalgic, I will go through my linen drawer which has dresser scarves, doilies and handkerchiefs, admiring each one for its uniqueness and attention to detail. You have inspired me to adopt the practice of carrying a handkerchief; a perfect way to bring some beauty and refinement in a world where these lovely things are nearly forgotten.
If you haven’t already, I would love to see a post about dresser scarves and runners.
July 28, 2021
Beautiful post, I have all of my mothers and my grandmothers handkerchiefs and I love them!
July 28, 2021
For those who don’t own or use handkerchiefs you are missing a great opportunity to share your love with others. Whenever I send a card for birthdays, get well wishes, sympathy or just a cheer you up message I always include some type of handkerchief in the card. You would be amazed at the happiness these little squares bring. My mother had a large collection of round ones which I would search out for her. When she passed, I thought the way to honor her would be to share her hankies. I still have many of hers and have kept the very special ones in my own collection. The colors, flowers, birds, lace always remind me of her. Start a collection. They can be very inexpensive or terribly expensive but your heart will lead you to the best ones for you and to share.
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January 29, 2023
My first exposure to a handkerchief funny enough was the Canadian military.
I was issued 4 green ones.
I have since released and enjoy them now everyday. Every gentleman should have one.