Making a Happy Home

While I peruse my list of seemingly hundreds of “must do” items on my list for our home and garden, {repaint living room, plant borders, polish brass doorknobs, purging warderobe etc} there are a few simple things I do each week to make sure I have a happy home, whether my list has a lot of check marks, or not!  A home I delight in coming home to after a crazy busy day.

1. I buy fresh flowers every week. Unless my garden has enough flowers growing that I won’t cringe {or get in major trouble with Mr. FgH} when cutting a few spectacular blooms off the roses and hydrangeas in the back garden.  Nothing else says “welcome home” better than a glorious vase of flowers on the living room table.  A few roses in the bathroom, and maybe a little cutting of something on the kitchen counter are a way to bring some of nature’s beauty inside.

2.  I love the scent of a glorious candle.  I am {sadly} allergic to many scented candles, which is one reason why I wanted to develop our own line of organic, soy candles. They burn clean, are renewable, sustainable, and environmentally friendly, and have a low melting point so the wax burns cooler, longer and safer, allowing the fragrance to be released into the air faster.  The scent wafts through our rooms in a gentle, non over bearing way.

3. Open your windows! Our windows are almost always open here in California.  There is nothing fresher than a home that has open windows. Allow the fresh breeze to come in…even if it is a little dusty.  You will be rewarded with not only fresh, clean air, but also hearing birds sing.  Now what could be happier than that?

4. Last, I surround myself and my family with little bits of beauty.  Change a few things around your home!  Set a porcelain tea cup on one of your favorite books, or on a tea tray. Then, actually pour yourself a cup of tea and just enjoy a few moments of peace.  It’s fun to move things around, maybe retire a few things to the closet, and showcase something new. Your home should delight and inspire you and your family. It’s your home. Love it. It will reward you with a peaceful, lovely place to rest and relax, and to make memories in with those you love.

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16 Comments

  1. Posted May 3, 2011 at 6:17 pm | Permalink

    Great advice. Thanks for sharing, Richard at My Old Historic House

  2. Posted May 3, 2011 at 6:56 pm | Permalink

    Lovely ideas. Thank you for sharing.

  3. Posted May 3, 2011 at 9:35 pm | Permalink

    so cute!
    take care,
    Rosa

  4. Posted May 3, 2011 at 11:31 pm | Permalink

    Thank you for the reminder of taking time for beauty and repose each day.

  5. Posted May 4, 2011 at 3:04 am | Permalink

    I totally agree with you! Those are all cheap, easy, and eco-friendly ways to bring some beauty into our homes! :)

    xoxo laurie

  6. Posted May 4, 2011 at 12:10 pm | Permalink

    I couldn’t agree more, simple things that make such a difference to the quality of y our life. Hope you are feeling a little better? Your candles look lovely, Love Linda xp.s. the picture of flowers is gorgeous, the colurs are beautiful together.

  7. Lidy
    Posted May 4, 2011 at 3:07 pm | Permalink

    Thanks, Linda, I am feeling a lot better. Just anxious for life to resume at its normal quick pace.:) I love that bouquet, it’s the one I made when Romantic Homes came to take photos of our home.

  8. Christie
    Posted May 4, 2011 at 4:13 pm | Permalink

    What a simply lovely post. The perfect thing to read on a Spring moring. Sometimes I wonder if we aren’t over thinking our decor. What if we loosened our criteria ? What if we just had things that made us happy ?
    ~ Christie

  9. cathy
    Posted May 4, 2011 at 10:02 pm | Permalink

    Hi my friend
    Just wanted to drop by and say hello it has been far to long…Back to my cottage now to create from home again and back to all my friends in blog land…I can’t wait to catch up…smiles c xx

  10. Lidy
    Posted May 4, 2011 at 10:11 pm | Permalink

    I so agree Christie! If we only have things that make us happy…what a great home that would be!

  11. Posted May 4, 2011 at 10:55 pm | Permalink

    Hi Lidy,
    I couldn’t agree more about opening up the windows all throughout the house. I will have to try one of the candles, I too have sinus issues and I just can’t do strong scents nor do I want to have it in the house. Thank you for the recommendation of this scent.

    Your post reminded me of reading one of my favorite lifestyle authors, Alexandra Stoddard. When I worked in the office, she took me away to wonderful places during lunch and I couldn’t wait to get home to embrace her ideas & suggestions. Never forget, she said she’d rather have a bouquet of fleurs and skip the lunch if she only had money for one or the other. A lovely sentiment in my book too! Thank you for the beautiful post, dear one.
    xo~Tracie

  12. Lidy
    Posted May 5, 2011 at 12:04 am | Permalink

    Hi Tracie, thanks for visiting today! I agree with Alexandra, I’d rather skip lunch and have the flowers.:)

  13. scented candles
    Posted May 11, 2011 at 10:36 am | Permalink

    Ah I agree that there is nothing like scented candles to make a happy home.

  14. Posted May 12, 2011 at 5:57 pm | Permalink

    Lidy,

    This is the best post! I love the bouquet and an so excited for our spring to arrive and stay awhile.

    Karen

  15. Posted May 19, 2011 at 9:33 am | Permalink

    MMmm aroma.

  16. David
    Posted July 4, 2011 at 9:00 am | Permalink

    I completely agree with Lidy about the flowers part. If I had fresh flowers around my house it makes me so alive and full of joy. After a long day’s work I prefer going to a home with a lot of fresh flowers than plastic stuff even if it means using some of the homegrown pansies in my vases.

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